Further explores relationship stressors from a woman’s point of view. The class learns further how brain biology affects relationship perceptions. Discussion topics reveal how verbal skills may not always translate into communication skills, why blame is perceived differently by the opposing sexes, and how women are stressed by increased expectations in the workplace that have yet to affect a decrease of expectations on the home front. The lesson also outlines the three things men need to feel truly committed to a relationship.
Grade levels: Adult
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Why Marriage is Worth it
Identifies the challenges and benefits of matrimony. The lesson focuses on how marriage affects the many aspects of life and includes research on how marriage is tied to health and self-esteem, how it can create “social capital” that advances us in society, how it affects family routines, rituals, and support for children, and how it can help us mature and grow both as individuals and as citizens at large.
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The True Source of Happiness
Answers the question, “Who is responsible for my happiness?” The lesson offers suggestions for a balanced, pro-active pursuit of personal happiness. Students learn how to transform negative criticism into positive communication for improved relations, how genetics plays a role in our capacity for happiness, and how the pursuit of hedonistic “highs” predisposes us to addiction and stress.
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Military Marriages
Do military marriages have special challenges and needs? This special bonus video allows students to learn about the unique situations that arise in military marriages. As you view the video, consider the challenges that confront military couples in building a solid and loving marriage.
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An Introduction
Sets out the objectives, methodology, and expectations of the course. Students are introduced to the difference between “person” and “personality”, and they are invited to assess their current assumptions and attitudes toward two people they know – one they like and one they don’t.
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The Variety of Personality Theories
Defines terminology pertinent to all personality theories. Students learn how the terms “structure”, “dynamics”, “development”, and “system” apply to the study of personality theories. The criteria for assessing the validity of a theory are discussed.
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Hooking Up – Upside, Downside
Discusses the pros and cons of casual sex. Investigative reporters and relationship experts present the advantages and disadvantages of “hooking up”. Discussion reveals how gender affects our perceptions of casual sex, and emphasizes the importance of safe-sex awareness.
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What to Look for in a Mate
Takes a look at statistical predictors of effective partner selection. Students learn how such variables as compatibility, accountability, ethnicity, and communication styles play a hand in mate selection. Neuroscientific research reveals how common notions of attraction based on familiarity can often go awry.
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How to Tell When you are Really in Love
Further examines the skills that help sustain true love. Discussion emphasizes the importance of tuning into and committing to true love. Topics include the high correlation between romantic expectations and divorce, and the role of Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs in successful relationships.
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Kafka, The Metamorphosis
Discussion focuses on the story as a modern parable, suggesting that the reality to which Gregor awakens is the truth of his life. Of what does this truth consist? In what ways can Kafka’s story be compared to “The Death of Ivan Ilych?” Students explore the story’s theme and plot, determine its purpose, and debate where the story’s climax lies in the narrative. How do elements such as pose style and tone, use of detail, and point-of-view contribute to the story’s effect? To what extent does the “rage to be normal” lead us to treat those who are different from us as non-human?